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LearnModule 4 · Lesson 3 of 30Basic User · CEFR A2, completedUnit 1 · Le passé composé with être

Avoir or être? — choosing the helper

Module 4 of the free French course (CEFR A2, completed), lesson 3 of 30: Most verbs take avoir; the going-coming club takes être. On this page: 6 words with their genders and respellings, the rule, a watch-out line and the audio — the study notes behind the workbook's lesson 3.

The words

FrenchEnglishSay it
je suis allé au parcI went to the park (m)zhuh swee zah-lay oh PAHRK
je suis allée au parcI went to the park (f)zhuh swee zah-lay oh PAHRK
j'ai mangé une pommeI ate an applezhay mah(n)-zhay ewn POHM
nous sommes arrivéswe arrivednoo sum zah-ree-VAY
le choixthe choiceluh SHWAH
l'aidefeminine — the article elides to l'the helpled

Respellings follow the course’s say-it key; the stressed syllable is in capitals. Print this lesson’s flashcards (PDF) — the words on the front, the English and respelling on the back.

Hear the words

Each word is read twice — say it back in the gap. Computer-generated voice; credits on the course page.

La règle · The rule

Most verbs take avoir; the going-coming club takes être. J'ai mangé (avoir) but je suis allé (être). When in doubt, avoir is the safe bet — the être club is small and you now know its core.

Et aussi · And also

The club so far: aller, venir, arriver, partir, rester. Module 5 rounds it out.

Attention · Watch out

When in doubt, avoir is the safe bet — but the être club is fixed: aller, venir, arriver, partir and rester always take être.

Do it now — on paper

  1. Say all 6 words aloud twice from the respelling, then once from the French spelling alone — begin with je suis allé au parc.
  2. Copy every word with its accents on paper; then cover the English column and write each meaning back from the French.
  3. Write two sentences of your own that get the watch-out line right, then the two practice pages of workbook lesson 3 in Module 4 are the written half of this page.

This free course is the reading half. The writing half — write-in lessons, daily practice pages with built-in review, self-checks and a full answer key — is the companion workbook series, The French Ladder: one workbook per module, fifteen in all, released band by band with the Basic band (Modules 1–5) first.

Keep these words

Turn this lesson’s words into flashcards, then space your reviews — the two habits the research behind our study guides backs hardest.

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